business interaction and social interactions are two different situations. Trust me I do sales I thought it will help me it did but not with my social life.
cracked me up, now I'm gonna randomly ask "do you want some ketchuuup?" when I'm talking to a group of people.
(coping)
For the commenter at - I'm currently going through a similar thing. Don't drop out unless its necessary, you may as well get the degree. Right now I am a tattoo apprentice and I think I've found my calling. But I'm still going to finish my psychology degree, even if I never use it. It's always good to have a degree.
(job = hobby while having fun)
Hmm, well then your hobby stops being your hobby but it may bring you the same amount of joy I guess?...
i totally agree with you. I am currently studying nutrition and it has never been a career path i've dreamt about my whole life. I always thought i'd be working with animals or even an artist. I just think i've figured out that i wanna keep my hobbies as my hobbies, and then have a steady job on the side with something that i like, but i might not be super passionate about. In the end i know that being an artist or working with animals in whatever way might not bring in the biggest intcome, so i'd rather save up the money i need from a 9-5 job to propperly indulge in my hobby, than stressing about afording food or certain things for my pets, and limiting my self and my dreams because i dont have the income for it. maybe in the future i'll change career paths, idk.... like once money isnt as big of a hindrence anymore (not that i've ever been un-privleged in that regard)
As someone with parents like that who tried to talk to them about that, they're just gonna tell you that you don't appreciate anything that they do for you or sth like that, but maybe you're lucky and they actually listen so, who knows
I think your parents are proud of you. You may have not "made it in life" in the way they expected but you REALLY made it in life. 110 Million people agree.
(validation)
Most of my friendships have an average lifespan of 3 years. If you are questioning why you don't have friends, we can trace it back by understanding what fuelled the friendship. A typical high school friendship is that of utility or convenience, and the friendship ceases to exist when any amount of effort is required to rendezvous or if collaboration is non-existent. The ideal friendship is one fuelled by healthy rivalry, one where each person pushes the other to their limits to improve themselves overall. One that is built upon reassurance and teamwork.
pewds:
(people come and go) my favorite
"I had a best friend". Damn, I hope I continue to stay friends with my best friend.
I'm commenting this time so that I can hear this story when ever I get depressed
Bro , I felt that. I haven't had any irl friends in like 2 or 3 years and it doesn't bother me. But it's not like people don't want to be friends with me, I just feel like everytime I socialice it tends to get awkward because of my bad social anxiety so all my friends are online now. Lmao
I feel the same way, I don't have any friends but I feel as if it doesn't matter really much
gotta be one of the most awkward moments on this channel.
(about you're future)
(courage to put yourself out)
me at expecting financial or career advice:"I wish I starting reading and I wish I started working out sooner"me: looks over at book I just borrowed from a friendme: remembers how just earlier this week I started to do some pushups and planking on a regular basis
(am introverted and that's fine)
this is problem when people actually try to point out something which doesn't matter, and at first when we hear these remarks we get annoyed and start questioning ourself, not realising that such thing should never matter in anyone's lives. Being confident is the key here. When I was a teenage I had very few friends and was an average at school but I never had any problem with that, I was like "why do I care, I am happy that's what matters" but soon people started remarking "you are so lazy that's why you don't get good grades, you're not clear at speaking that's why you don't have friends" these remarks made me worry about friends and grades and stuff. Which was useless. It took me some time to realise that it's fine if i dont have some things in life. Because I actually have so many things in my life which will never equate to what I don't have.
"Everyone has things that they excel in"Sive: *adds a picture of hitman*
*Clean your room.* If all the social issues of our time are weighing on you so much, go clean your room, take care of your _own_ responsibilities, and _stop trying to save the world._ You can't save the world if you can't even manage your _own_ issues. And if as you're focusing on bettering yourself, someone comes to you asking how you feel about these issues, don't tell them what they want to hear, tell them the truth: you're working on _you,_ and you haven't studied the issue enough to make an informed decision on the matter. That or do the research before you blurt out something in ignorance. I would suggest listening to Jordan Peterson before you try to tackle Nietzsche.
i think pewds viewed the question as someone that blames his problems on societal issues to avoid working on himself. But I think it's more about finding out about big problems which you are powerless to change (eg. societal issues, climate change...), while still being part of them. In turn the individual takes huge responsibilities that he alone is incapable of working on.
Damn, that question applies to me too. Liked his explanation and in 13:43
(social issues)
I do not feel any guilt for what my ancestors did whatsoever
it’s basically a form of tribalism that many young people engage in. Once you’re an adult your parents no longer represent your family as much and the people around you become your tribe. It’s important to be part of one but also then to learn to differentiate yourself from the crowd!
(changing and challenge)
you have to treat yourself and negotiate with yourself as thought you are your own boss and employee
was cool, doesnt matter how you say it, the important thing is that you get the point across which you did
- 12:24 your description was great! I think even if it's not the exact same quote, you still nicely expressed yourself.This quote helped me
(relationship)
Damn Felix, I would've worded that phrasing different if I were you at 😮🤕
I literally died from laughter, this is such a great and true advice
My own advice about this is to tell yourself "I get to to this" instead of "I have to do this". For real, convince yourself that what you are doing it's because you want to do it, that just makes everything feel better
that is true, a lot of ppl think 'you are good at study, you must be smart", but that is not , everyone can be, if they put their mind in it. The ppl who consistently get good grade, because they consistently put the effort into it. You just have to do study all day and all night.
Maya came out of nowhere
(studies)
Pewds, TBCH, you're really my hero right now. I'm going through emotional and mental rollercoasters and am feelling like everything seems pointless... Thanks for being our Dr., Dr. Pewdds
